To even make it worst she's online.
The thought of she saw my message and still left it is enough to go Gaga.
This is what many young boys face.
Following a systematic pattern, we will be able to overcome such broken hearts.
First if you are able to answer these questions truthfully, we may then proceed.
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| This is what happens when you keep hurting from things like this. |
Who is she to you?
Who are you to her?
By the time you finish answering these questions , you might start feeling ease already.
There are two pillars I must run you through that will help in overcoming tension that arises if she doesn't reply you on time.
Mind you these are pillars that holds any relationship
There are two pillars I must run you through that will help in overcoming tension that arises if she doesn't reply you on time.
Mind you these are pillars that holds any relationship
1. Prioritization.
When you make any one feel too important, you have given him or her the power of pride. You don't prioritize every girl in your life. You might get wondering why this is.
Even when You are head over hills for her learn to be moderate while talking.
When she sense or feels that you are stalking her, she automatically reduces your worth.
When you make a table of items, you start from your needs down to your wants. So all so you should make a table of preference of whom and who not to prioritize.
Other times we get carried away by beauty, forgetting to realize that beauty doesn't lie on the face but in the inner most part of the heart.
The time you realise this, you won't even care about who replies your chat in 1 minute or 5 days time.
Not every body can be your special friend. Some are meant to be talk buddies or Gossip partner.
I have also realized that when we mix our priorities, we end up hurting the one who truly cares, because we are caught up thinking of some leftover.
Hence, let's try and see ways to look at things from a different perspective.
And this brings us to the next way to overcoming the heart pain of messages not replied.
The time you realise this, you won't even care about who replies your chat in 1 minute or 5 days time.
Not every body can be your special friend. Some are meant to be talk buddies or Gossip partner.
I have also realized that when we mix our priorities, we end up hurting the one who truly cares, because we are caught up thinking of some leftover.
Hence, let's try and see ways to look at things from a different perspective.
And this brings us to the next way to overcoming the heart pain of messages not replied.
2. Understanding.
This is a very essential pillar in relationships.
Imagine you are so busy and you don't remember you have a phone let alone replying chats and your mobile data is left on. And then you have to give this as an excuse to a girlfriend of yours. No matter how factual it is to your hearing, it's Bullshit.
But When you gave this silly excuse what was her response?
Most time when you don't get knowledge from the way others respond to you in similar cases, that means you can never be taught through experience. You should never forget the fact that we are all humans and expect a little consideration in all we do.
However, some funny situations gives rise to funnier excuses. Even if he wasn't married, just Imagine how Job's wife must have felt when she heard her husband saying he was swallowed by a fish for 3 days? Funny right? . His wife must have been like So that's the best excuse you could come up with right?
That's understanding from one view. Let's try another.
Have you ever asked yourself what she means to you?
See, not even love will make you hurt or ANGRY from a delayed response. Whenever this happens it simply means that you see her as a property.
Understanding tallies down to the point where you see that she's not your personal belonging. She's gat her own life to live.
Patient is also very important but when you understand things better, patience won't be a problem.
Hope I have been able to help out.
So don't let it border you when she doesn't reply on time
NOTE: AM NOT WRITING AS A GUY ONLY THIS IS ALSO APPLICABLE TO GIRLS.
Imagine you are so busy and you don't remember you have a phone let alone replying chats and your mobile data is left on. And then you have to give this as an excuse to a girlfriend of yours. No matter how factual it is to your hearing, it's Bullshit.
But When you gave this silly excuse what was her response?
Most time when you don't get knowledge from the way others respond to you in similar cases, that means you can never be taught through experience. You should never forget the fact that we are all humans and expect a little consideration in all we do.
However, some funny situations gives rise to funnier excuses. Even if he wasn't married, just Imagine how Job's wife must have felt when she heard her husband saying he was swallowed by a fish for 3 days? Funny right? . His wife must have been like So that's the best excuse you could come up with right?
That's understanding from one view. Let's try another.
Have you ever asked yourself what she means to you?
See, not even love will make you hurt or ANGRY from a delayed response. Whenever this happens it simply means that you see her as a property.
Understanding tallies down to the point where you see that she's not your personal belonging. She's gat her own life to live.
Patient is also very important but when you understand things better, patience won't be a problem.
Hope I have been able to help out.
So don't let it border you when she doesn't reply on time
NOTE: AM NOT WRITING AS A GUY ONLY THIS IS ALSO APPLICABLE TO GIRLS.
